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My youngest son has attended CZC for several years and I sing their praises for saving him from his overwhelming grief as he got older and was trying to process his grief at different stages of maturity. I am printing your article and will have this conversation with him tonight. Thank you again for talking about such an important topic! I really liked reading this and others comments. My brother died almost 3 years and when I am asked how many siblings I give a response depending on who the person is.

If it is someone who is just making small talk then I say 2-a brother and sister. If it is someone who I am becoming friends with then I will tell the whole truth that I have a sister and my brother died. I have to say that this resonates with me as well.

I lost my sister over 30 yrs ago, and it is still something that I struggle with. I also share with them as we get to know each other. My dad had a sister that died in a car crash my aunt. I know how you feel, but the best thing to do is acknowledge him talk about him in a positive way. People will seldom ask about details of how and why did he die so keep it simple. The more you do it, the more comfortable you will feel about it.

My brother was murdered 11 years ago and I have never felt I could find anyone to connect to about his death, even though I have another brother he hid his pain. This question is one I will always dread.


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It has been a while since I last checked in, but I thank you all for your comments and suggestions. I lost my brother 6 years ago and had a very hard time with it and heavily grieved for years. I, too, constantly struggle with this question I fine more so in professional settings. Sibling grief is not brought to light enough.

I remember trying to seek help for my grief and could only find support groups for parent-child and child-parent loss. This made me feel even more isolated. Thank you for this. I would first like to say that I am very sorry for your loss. I have not experienced the loss of a sibling myself, but just this weekend I was in a group of people where this question came up to a friend of mine who had recently lost two of his siblings. Some of the people in the group knew about this, and so we were able to take some of the pressure off the person who had been asked, by, like you said, relaying some memories, and things like that.

It felt like we were helping a little bit. I still find myself submerged in grief some days and others days I answer without a beat oh I have two brothers one lives n works blabla and the other passed in about ten years ago. My problem is after 10 years people I grew up with want to express their grief about my brother to me because they are scared to talk about him to my parents. Family who came to my brothers funeral did not come for my wedding. The people who did show up wanted to see how my family was dealing.

I m sorry but this is not his funeral 10 years ago its our wedding. This stops the person thinking that THEY upset you.

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Thank you for posting this. In the end the whole thing becomes more uncomfortable for me than it would have been if I had just told the truth, Even though I always vow that next time I will talk about Mark it always catches me off guard and I revert to saying no. I really hope I do. Thanks again for writing your story.


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  • Thank you for writing this. I thought that I was the only person who struggled to answer this question. My condolences. Even though it was a long time ago, I know what it feels like to lose a brother.

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    I am the middle child of three adopted children. I have one older brother and one younger brother. On April 17th, , my older brother had passed away from a brain aneurysm at the age of I went through the same stages as you, from not including my brother in the sibling count, then including him, but not going into much detail about him to avoid mentioning his death. Eventually, I started opening up more to people when they asked about how many siblings I had.

    Actually, just this afternoon, one of my new friends brought up the subject and told her what had happened. Can you tell this person? Will they acknowledge how difficult that was for you or sweep it under the carpet so quickly only because they feel uncomfortable perhaps that it makes you furious how any one could be so dismissive over something so painful and someone so loved? For me, this question is especially difficult.

    So when you mention bringing up a positive memory of them e. Today, I figured out that I had a sister and a brother.

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    My brother past away, when he was 3,a year before I was born. My sister, died at birth, 2 years before I was born. I struggle with this all the time. It is amazing how many times that question comes up. I am the middle of three children. My little brother committed suicide when he was I have a brother, two older sisters, a twin sister, and a younger sister.

    He died when he was three weeks old; he had underdeveloped lungs. I was six when he died. My mom and dad visit his grave a lot and my mom cries on his birthday and is depressed for about a month.

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    God bless and good luck on your healing journey! I completely understand the gravity of that dreaded question. After ten years, I believe that trying to avoid that question at work has created a distance between me and my coworkers that I cannot bridge. I used to dread lunch room conversations and holidays, because everyone would talk about their families.

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    I did not grow up an only child, but since my sister died at age 21 I was 24 I have lived most of my adult life as an adult only child. I feel like I have lost so much of my past because I do not have her to recall the memories with me. Thank you for putting this dilemma into words. People who have not lost a sibling do not understand. Been strugling with the excat same situation for 6 years now dealing with my older brother passing away.

    Thank you so much, points are spot on and inspiering!

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    Really helped me a lot. I want to thank you for this article. My sister, my only sibling, was killed riding her bike when a truck hit her, a month and a half ago. I was VERY close to her.


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    • I have been struggling with this question. Her death was very public as well, because we live in a small town. I find myself getting mad at people for thinking they have something to say about it. I am sorry that we all must feel this pain. But I want you to know how good it feels to not be alone in this. This is exactly the article I was looking for. Every word that you said is just the way I feel. If someone asks if I have any siblings, I just say I have an older sister and always fail to mention my little brother.

      I am always hesitant.

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      But believe me, I can talk about my brother for hours and hours, it just hurts explaining how he died, it brings so many bad memories. Hello Grief provides information and resources about grief in order to break through the current culture of avoidance that surrounds death and loss. Instead, Hello Grief addresses bereavement head-on for those who are helping others cope, as well as those who need support on their own personal journey with grief.

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